1. Remind your partner (and yourself) that you appreciate them.
2. Say thank you for the little things.
3. Practice honesty, even when you’re ashamed.
4. Take care of your appearance.
5. Foster relationships outside your marriage.
6. Watch your words.
7. Put away the jumper cables yourself.
8. Relish the silence.
9. Recognize the ebb-and-flow.
10. Be kind.
11. Maintain intimacy and passion, both inside and outside the bedroom.